Will she or won't she? Has she been leaving you in a tizzy by giving out those mixed signals? Are you confused if she is interested in you or if it is your place or her's that she wants to go to?
Just read the signals right and you'd have your answers right in front of you. And here's your chance to know for sure if she wants you bad or if are you are just reading too much between the lines.
Those lingering glances
They say a woman's life story can be read through her eyes, you just have to look deep inside them. But we're not really interested in the past, are we? All we want to know is what's going to happen in the near future.
When it comes to sex, very few women really come out and initiate the action via their thoughts expressed in words. But only a rare few can keep their eyes from telling the naughty thoughts that are running through their minds.
If the eye contact lingers on for more than just a few seconds and she shies away with a blink and comes back for more, you know she's interested. How interested? That you'd know from the intensity and the duration of the eye contact. Usually, over eight second glances verify such intentions. However, there's a whole lot of smiling and looks of acceptance that needs to accompany these glances.
If you're not an eye contact person and her glances intimidate you, try looking for other body signals. Look for signs like when she accidentally brushes past you more than once or if she is, uncharacteristically, touching you playfully.
When a woman is looking to get close to man, the anticipation starts to show in the way she starts to react to every little thing that the man says or does. Her senses get more aware then as she starts to feel more of everything.
She'd slowly start to expose her erogenous zones to you, for you to know where exactly she wants you to touch her. She might start out with showing the lesser exposed parts, for instance the back side of her wrist, of her body. She'll do it unknowingly and instinctively, but if you're patient enough you'll see her opening up to you.
She'll probably then start playing with her hair and move her hair to one side of her shoulder to expose her neck to you. The shoes start to slip out too, that's if she's comfortable enough with you and in her surroundings. You'll see her shiver a little with the thought of anticipation, she might even try to hold herself together by wrapping herself tightly in her arms or a shawl if she has one.
If reading all that doesn't come easy to you and you start to walk away with just a good night kiss on her cheek and she refuses to let go off your hand then please stay back!
If she'd rather stay home and cook you a nice dinner and suggests— "lets stay in", instead of going out to her favourite restaurant, you should be able to guess what you're going to have for dessert later.
She'll do everything that her favourite women's magazine tells her to do in order to get what she wants from you. Dinner table set for two, scented candles and dim lights, Norah Jones playing in the background — you're trapped my boy!
When she suggests sharing a few special moments with you alone, maybe up on the terrace looking at the stars or a long drive after dinner, you know what's on her mind, unless she says NO, loud and clear!
Suggestive talking
For some women, especially the smarter variety, the game of getting what they want is all about wordplay — saying the right things at the right time. We are talking about suggestive talking!
In fact, there are women who'd agree to have had hour long pointless arguments with a guy they've been really attracted to, just to match their wits against his and challenge him or even dare him at times in more ways than one.
You'll see them at their flirtatious and wittiest best. The more difficult you get to be the more it turns them on.
It is scary, but true, these are the women who take the lead in bed too, so beware!
A woman on a mission to get you can be most dangerous thing to happen to you. And, if she knows your weaknesses, she'll do anything to get what she wants.
Of course I am talking about the rare variety of aggressive women, who have no problems with taking the lead, but don't really mind if you're with them in it.
She'll seduce you with her laughter, she'll seduce you with her mind, she'll probably even try and pretend to get drunk and wait till you're high enough to make the first move.
And before you know what hit you, she's thrown you on the bed and had her way with you and with no regrets later or ever!
But if its you who doesn't want any regrets sooner or later, if at any point during the act the woman says NO! please back out without thinking twice.
And you can trust her to come back more than willing for you being such a gentleman.
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