You can touch my hair and kiss me everywhere... Does it sound too clichéd or rather boring way to seduce your partner? Are you tired of reading the
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same old techniques of seduction?
Well, what about going back to the basics? And nothing can be more basic than the five senses - sense of sight, sense of smell, sense of taste, sense of hearing, sense of touch. These can really keep things sizzling hot during sex. Vatsayan would have definitely vouched for that! We get modern day experts to share more on it...
To keep the flames burning in your sex-life, you must fine-tune your seduction skills. With fingers busy, mouths, lips, tongues, noses, and eyes enticed, sensuousness will linger in every move to make you the most desirable man or woman of seduction.
Rita Gangwani, an etiquette expert, shares, "Sometimes we take the senses so much for granted that we don't really pay attention to them. Working to develop the five senses and focusing on them while making love, drawing attention to his/her sensuousness will not only enhance your own pleasure, but will give pleasure to your lover as well."
Dr. Sanjay Chugh, expert on sexual issues, says, "The seduction tips that one can employ also depends on 'overall' quality of the couple's relationship. If there is a healthy emotional and psychological bond between the two, the chances of a good sex life is high. And in case, if one incorporates a few out-of-the-box techniques, then it's definitely some icing on the cake!"
Psychiatrist Dr. Samir Parikh supports, "Couples need to keep trying to make things work for them but the key is not just trying new things, its more to be attuned to each others likes, fantasies and pleasures so that a mutually satisfying relationship could result. They can try various permutations and combinations of these seduction ways on their personalities."
On how these five senses work towards stimulating the libido of male/female partner, Dr. Parikh explains, "Most of these factors (senses) have an association in our mind, so they act as a conditioned stimulus, and can help creating the atmosphere. But the key would be the mutuality and the quality of the non-sexual life would have its direct impact on the sexual life."
Rita adds, "One must be aware to the fact that human body is bristling with sensory receptors - God's gift to humankind - it's up to us to responsibly enjoy it. One must give body the permission to celebrate what's inside; celebrate it with oneself, and with the partner. We must take time to really learn the subtle but very powerful art of seducing the opposite sex using all five senses."
Well, what about going back to the basics? And nothing can be more basic than the five senses - sense of sight, sense of smell, sense of taste, sense of hearing, sense of touch. These can really keep things sizzling hot during sex. Vatsayan would have definitely vouched for that! We get modern day experts to share more on it...
To keep the flames burning in your sex-life, you must fine-tune your seduction skills. With fingers busy, mouths, lips, tongues, noses, and eyes enticed, sensuousness will linger in every move to make you the most desirable man or woman of seduction.
Rita Gangwani, an etiquette expert, shares, "Sometimes we take the senses so much for granted that we don't really pay attention to them. Working to develop the five senses and focusing on them while making love, drawing attention to his/her sensuousness will not only enhance your own pleasure, but will give pleasure to your lover as well."
Dr. Sanjay Chugh, expert on sexual issues, says, "The seduction tips that one can employ also depends on 'overall' quality of the couple's relationship. If there is a healthy emotional and psychological bond between the two, the chances of a good sex life is high. And in case, if one incorporates a few out-of-the-box techniques, then it's definitely some icing on the cake!"
Psychiatrist Dr. Samir Parikh supports, "Couples need to keep trying to make things work for them but the key is not just trying new things, its more to be attuned to each others likes, fantasies and pleasures so that a mutually satisfying relationship could result. They can try various permutations and combinations of these seduction ways on their personalities."
On how these five senses work towards stimulating the libido of male/female partner, Dr. Parikh explains, "Most of these factors (senses) have an association in our mind, so they act as a conditioned stimulus, and can help creating the atmosphere. But the key would be the mutuality and the quality of the non-sexual life would have its direct impact on the sexual life."
Rita adds, "One must be aware to the fact that human body is bristling with sensory receptors - God's gift to humankind - it's up to us to responsibly enjoy it. One must give body the permission to celebrate what's inside; celebrate it with oneself, and with the partner. We must take time to really learn the subtle but very powerful art of seducing the opposite sex using all five senses."
These are simple yet extremely seductive ways.
SENSE OF SIGHT
It's an individual choice how you choose to decorate your bedroom but what's important here is to place care and attention on the location. Stuff like candles, silky bedding and lots of pillows and even hot lingerie can do wonders.
Expert view : This may not be possible all the time but can be reserved for those special occasions where one wants to feel and act different. Using rose petals and pillows as props can surely add to the fun!
SENSE OF SMELL
Aromatics and fragrances are the best mood setters however most of couples won't know how to make the most of it. Aromatics can work for you or against you, so make sure that you know which scents your partner enjoys. Scented candles incense or scented massage oil can excite your partner.
Expert view : Some smells/fragrances make you feel calm and relaxed and this contributes to one's state of mind while making love. A massage certainly tends to loosen you up and soothes your senses.
SENSE OF TASTE
Believe it or not, but food can be powerful aphrodisiacs. Try strawberries with whipped cream, grapes or edible lotions, chocolate syrups or honey.
Expert view : It is understood that aphrodisiacs tend to increase one's libido, desire for sex and set the right mood. Some would even reduce one's usual inhibitions and make you more comfortable, aroused and stimulated.
SENSE OF HEARING
Apart from whispering in ears and listening to your body while making love, other sounds and noises can also do the magic. Let your partner listen to an erotic story in the background pre-recorded in your voice or a romantic piece of music that fits the overall mood you are going for.
Expert view : The kind of noise, nature and type would be important, as a loud, disturbing, croaky cacophonous noise is definitely a turn off. However, some soothing, romantic music can surely get you in the naughty mood.
SENSE OF TOUCH
This happens to be the most erotic senses of all. You can add that extra sensation to this sense with silky bedding, lingerie, or even with oil massage. You may also try building up the mood with ice cube, feather, something furry or a rose bud.
Expert view : The entire human body is an erogenous zone - the neck, shoulders, arms, ear, lips...the list goes on and on! Exploring this zone and stroking it gently can certainly get your partner feel horny and increasingly passionate.
Here are some tips, suggested by the expert, to arouse your senses...
SIGHT
1. Move in front of the mirror, so the two of you get front-row seats for the evening show.
2. Make eye contact with each other and let each other know that you have a deep connection.
3. Porn is great, if your partner is game but do not overdo this and neither expect partner to perform like a porn star forcibly. Let it happen naturally.
4. Keep the lights soft and filtered, as too bright lighting can detract from the ambience.
5. You can even try doing a strip tease for each other on some romantic number.
SMELL
1. Pheromones, the perfume of sexual attraction (produced by your body naturally) can be a great turn-on but make sure your partner is comfortable with it.
2. Rose petals can either be stewed on the bed or you can take a sensual bath with rose petals in the tub. Other herbal aphrodisiacs like jasmine, rose and ylang ylang can also be tried.
3. Gently wipe your light bulbs with a thin coat of perfumed oil and it'll send calming or sensual scents throughout the bedroom.
4. Sprinkle dusting powder on your sheets to make them fragrant and silky. Scented sachets of lavender and rosemary also add to the air of romance.
5. Slightly menthol scented hygiene washes can be used to wash your body for that fresh tingly smell.
6. Use a mint or a mouth freshener before you kiss your partner.
TASTE
1. Get some sensual food items to bed like chocolate sauce, strawberries, grapes or whipped cream to explore the world of sexy tastes.
2. Bring a few flavored warming massage oils that come in multiple flavors like strawberry, cherry and banana. These sexy oils not only create heat and lubrication, they taste good, too!
3. Hand-feed each other fruits with curious textures, like pomegranates or lychees. The sugar and unique feel of the fruit on her lips and tongue can serve up an arousing double shot of pleasure.
4. Drink champagne from sexy champagne glasses, caress the long stem and lick each other's lips - this is mind blowing too.
5. Edible underwear in different flavors can also be experimented with.
SOUND
1. Play some slow, romantic music to get your partner in the mood for a long night of sex.
Be vocal. Moan when he/she hits the right spots during the act. These sounds boost up arousal.
2. Give him/ her little auditory arousal with some hot compliments. Do dirty talk and tell each other what you would like to do to them.
3. Try enacting a fantasy character and talk like him/ her - a fantasy lover, film star, or characters like doctor, nurse etc... just go crazy with the imagination.
4. If it's noisy outside your bedroom window, hang thick curtains to muffle the sound. Keep distractions such as the television in another room.
5. Please recheck that your bed does not make squeaky sounds.
TOUCH
1. Make your room romantic and as cosy as possible by maintaining the right temperature, as per the season.
2. Put silky/ satiny sheets on the bed, which will make the bed look instantly ready for sex. Real key is a comfortable mattress, so make sure that it's neither too hard nor too soft.
3. Hold an ice cube in your palm and as it melts, drip it down his/her abdomen.
4. A foot massage can trigger the nerves that connect with the genitals.
5. Stroke each other's hair and to further arouse this, give each other a back massage. Use feather, flowers, and petals to stroke the body and send shivers down the spine.
6. Lick each others trigger zones and breathe on the neck and ears. Blind fold your partner with silk scarf and let the game start.
1. Move in front of the mirror, so the two of you get front-row seats for the evening show.
2. Make eye contact with each other and let each other know that you have a deep connection.
3. Porn is great, if your partner is game but do not overdo this and neither expect partner to perform like a porn star forcibly. Let it happen naturally.
4. Keep the lights soft and filtered, as too bright lighting can detract from the ambience.
5. You can even try doing a strip tease for each other on some romantic number.
SMELL
1. Pheromones, the perfume of sexual attraction (produced by your body naturally) can be a great turn-on but make sure your partner is comfortable with it.
2. Rose petals can either be stewed on the bed or you can take a sensual bath with rose petals in the tub. Other herbal aphrodisiacs like jasmine, rose and ylang ylang can also be tried.
3. Gently wipe your light bulbs with a thin coat of perfumed oil and it'll send calming or sensual scents throughout the bedroom.
4. Sprinkle dusting powder on your sheets to make them fragrant and silky. Scented sachets of lavender and rosemary also add to the air of romance.
5. Slightly menthol scented hygiene washes can be used to wash your body for that fresh tingly smell.
6. Use a mint or a mouth freshener before you kiss your partner.
TASTE
1. Get some sensual food items to bed like chocolate sauce, strawberries, grapes or whipped cream to explore the world of sexy tastes.
2. Bring a few flavored warming massage oils that come in multiple flavors like strawberry, cherry and banana. These sexy oils not only create heat and lubrication, they taste good, too!
3. Hand-feed each other fruits with curious textures, like pomegranates or lychees. The sugar and unique feel of the fruit on her lips and tongue can serve up an arousing double shot of pleasure.
4. Drink champagne from sexy champagne glasses, caress the long stem and lick each other's lips - this is mind blowing too.
5. Edible underwear in different flavors can also be experimented with.
SOUND
1. Play some slow, romantic music to get your partner in the mood for a long night of sex.
Be vocal. Moan when he/she hits the right spots during the act. These sounds boost up arousal.
2. Give him/ her little auditory arousal with some hot compliments. Do dirty talk and tell each other what you would like to do to them.
3. Try enacting a fantasy character and talk like him/ her - a fantasy lover, film star, or characters like doctor, nurse etc... just go crazy with the imagination.
4. If it's noisy outside your bedroom window, hang thick curtains to muffle the sound. Keep distractions such as the television in another room.
5. Please recheck that your bed does not make squeaky sounds.
TOUCH
1. Make your room romantic and as cosy as possible by maintaining the right temperature, as per the season.
2. Put silky/ satiny sheets on the bed, which will make the bed look instantly ready for sex. Real key is a comfortable mattress, so make sure that it's neither too hard nor too soft.
3. Hold an ice cube in your palm and as it melts, drip it down his/her abdomen.
4. A foot massage can trigger the nerves that connect with the genitals.
5. Stroke each other's hair and to further arouse this, give each other a back massage. Use feather, flowers, and petals to stroke the body and send shivers down the spine.
6. Lick each others trigger zones and breathe on the neck and ears. Blind fold your partner with silk scarf and let the game start.
Source:timesofindia.indiatimes.com
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